Pure Romance

My husband and I have been married for 34 years. We have been down some rocky roads. The first ten years were all about him and all about me. We lived selfish lives, each wanting our own way. We loved each other, just loved ourselves more.

We were in competition, but we did not know it. It takes years to look back and see clearly the error of our ways. Keeping love and romance alive is a friend that doesn't reveal itself during the first few months or even years of a marriage.

The next ten years were a time of transition. I call it our time of Rock n’ Roll. There were rocks along the way, but we began to learn how to roll with them. The first clue came when we to learned to laugh.

Too much drama and seriousness can kill a marriage. Lighten up, life should be fun. You should be having the time of your life. The most fun should not be in the chase, but in the catch. Keeping love and romance alive is learning to find the art of humor in everyday life. Have you ever noticed that if you smile you cannot stay mad? It’s an anger buster!

The last 14 years have had a few pebbles along the way. However, we learned that we were partners not competitors. We are both on the same team. We learned the value of being childlike, not childish. What a difference. We learned how to be friends.

Keeping love and romance alive is learning to become like children. Children are teachable, forgiving, and they don’t hold grudges. Children have many spats, but they forget about it in just a few minutes and the fun starts all over again!

That is the secret to a happy long lasting marriage. Keep the fun alive. Life is too short to be unhappy. It’s simple and it will work for you if you will put it into practice. No, it is not easy but it is worth it. Keeping love and romance alive in your life is the key that unlocks the fountain of youth. Try it, you will like it!

Besides writing, Charli is a Motivational Speaker.

She conducts Leadership Seminars, and is a keynote speaker for Christian Women's Conferences, as well as Image, Beauty & Fashion Seminars.

Feel free to contact Charli for possible booking engagements. She has been in the fashion and cosmetic industry for 20 years. She has judged numerous beauty pageants, including the Miss USA Preliminaries. She was a co-owner of Body Beautiful Boutique, which included the Body Contour Salon of which Kelly Cash visited frequently on her way to becoming "Miss America." She has been involved with Seventeen Magazine Seminars and employed by Lancôme Cosmetics producing video makeovers and fashion shows. Her background includes the movie, "Great Balls of Fire," television, radio, theatre, stage, photography and image consulting.

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Finding a good romance tip can be a predictable and boring affair. So many little tips you've heard before fills the majority of your search. Here i give a workable, proven, and effective romance tip that will not only work in the moment but will have lasting effects in the long run.

So whats this underground romance tip? It involves "having layers". Now this romance tip can be applied to whatever particular type of romancing you may have in mind. But we're going to look at the angle of gift giving for romantic purposes. Something romantic one often does is give there sweetheart a little gift, whether it be out of the blue or for a particular occasion. ALWAYS layer that gift.

Say it's a little teddy bear we're using as the object for our romance tip. Well that's all sweet and nice, albeit generic, overdone, and boring. But, take that bear and rip it open. Now no doubt i'll have a hundred dudes ripping off the bears head, "Ok, what now Chess? Let's hear the next step in this romance tip." Well first sew the head back on. Better yet don't rip off the head in the first place, instead make a relatively small and careful incision at the HEART of the bear.

Alright, now from there, shove inside that damn bear, uh, excuse me...delicately place inside that sweet bear, an even smaller item of your choice, the most obvious thing would be a piece of jewelry, say a ring or necklace. Other romance tip object options could be anything from your girl's favorite piece of chocolate wrapped up, tickets to a concert, or something else you think would work great. Now wait, we're not done. There's more to this romance tip.

After you stuff whatever in the bear, we now need to seal it, right? "So we have to sew the damn thing back together Chess?" No, no, not at all. This is what we do. We seal the hole area back up...with a sticker. A HEART sticker! That's right, shouldn't be to hard to find a generic heart sticker at the drugstore, just smack that heart sticker on our romance tip bear to cover up the surgery. Also, include another heart sticker in the package, so when you ask her "hmm..i wonder what the heart holds?" And she takes off the sticker to find her romance tip object, then we'll have a fresh second sticker to put back on. And, the heart sticker indeed adds, another layer to this three layered romance tip.

So the point of this layering romance tip, is that the present is going to mean so much more with the added element of our romance tip object, and the element of "hands on care". Actually taking the time and thought to do all this means an enormous amount to a gal.

Second, this romance tip is going to have a HUGE impact compared to if you just gave her a single layer gift. She is going to be on the phone with her girlfriends telling them how cute the whole thing was. Her girlfriends are going to be razzing their boyfriends and you'll start getting calls from other dude's on romance tip pointers. Like where exactly do you make the incision in the teddy bear.

Third, and this is key, she's going to remember it. Not only because it was a cute experience, but because she's going to have the damn bear sitting somewhere nearby with the heart sticker on it! Think about it, that heart sticker separates that bear from all her other bears, and has much more meaning as it showed just how cute and thoughtful you were, which makes this romance tip one that carries long term impressions!

Interested in a killer Romance Tip? How 'bout hundreds of them! http://www.squidoo.com/500-lovemaking-tips/ is Chess's blog where he reveals more romance tips form experts in the field. Feel free to check out http://www.squidoo.com/500-lovemaking-tips/ and thanks as always for reading a Chess article!

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There's nothing more alluring than an intoxicating scent. In nature, flowers draw us to them with their hypnotizing perfume; a summer rain captures us with its earthy scent; and newly fallen leaves carry with them the smell of autumn in the air. When it comes to choosing a perfume or cologne in a bottle – we often choose those scents that are reminiscent of those to which we are naturally attracted.

There are multitudes of perfume and cologne manufacturers on the market today – each attempting to create the scent that will appeal to the masses and carve out its own niche in a fickle modern marketplace. Considering how many scents hit the shelves every year, few have been successful in relative terms. However, some products – such as Ralph Lauren Romance – have captured and held the interest of the public.

With the founding of the Polo label in 1967, Ralph Lauren introduced the world to a sophisticated new line of men's ties that instantly rocketed to popularity. These ties – significantly wider than the traditional ties of the time – established the company's connection to a bold and creative style.

Within two year's time, Polo by Ralph Lauren was synonymous with men's fashion; the company began producing sophisticated men's wear that earned them their boutique space in Bloomingdale's of New York City. The company introduced their first women's line in 1971 and with that the brand became a fashion beacon for both genders.

Making its first foray into fragrance in 1978, Ralph Lauren introduced Polo for Men and Lauren (for women) to the market. The products garnered such popularity that the fragrance line continued to expand; new products were added to the fragrance line one by one as consumers embraced each one. Today, the company continues to produce a wide variety of both men's and women's fragrances – all of which have been enormously successful in the industry.

Ralph Lauren Romance was introduced in 1998 and quickly followed up with Ralph Lauren Romance for Men a year later. Both fragrances won The Fragrance Foundation's FiFi Fragrance Start of the Year in their prospective launch years.

Ralph Lauren Romance, the women's fragrance, unites hints of ginger, rose, and oak – a combination that is both clean and refined. The bottle – offered at 1.7 oz. and 3.4 oz. – has simple lines and a spray dispenser. Women often remark how convenient it is to slip into a purse or overnight bag. Of course, along with the perfume comes a host of complementary products including bath and shower gel, hand cream, and body moisturizer.

Ralph Lauren Romance for Men has a clean woody scent – with a hint of citrus. Also available in a 1.7 oz. and 3.4 oz. spray, the cologne can be purchased separately or as part of grooming gift sets that feature the cologne, aftershave, and shower gel.

The Ralph Lauren fragrance line ultimately owes its popularity to the overall commitment of the company that manufacturers them. Since its beginning thirty years ago, Polo by Ralph Lauren has maintained a strong commitment to quality, sophistication, and spectacular style.

Still looking for the perfect romance? Try visiting http://www.MyRomanceLife.com, a website that specializes in providing romance advice, tips and resources including information on the Ralph Lauren romance.

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An office affair can have a detrimental effect on your career and on the dynamics of the workplace in general.

Contrary to conventional wisdom, and despite the danger of sexual harassment, there’s a lot of loving going on in the office. The warming of the workplace reflects a much more wide-scale upheaval in the ways we work. Given endless workweeks, the reclaiming of emotional wholeness, and a new ideal of love as partnership, it makes a lot of sense to a lot of people – except the human resources department! In an age full of disclosure, it may be wise, anyway, to meet under fluorescent light than candlelight.

Most offices are awash in romance today. According to several recent studies, about 80 percent of employees have either observed or been in a romantic relationship at their workplace.

Cell phone messages are the order of the day: “Don forget our 6pm date at Rose Garden, Mikocheni” or “Your luscious lips make me go nuts. I need a taste of them this evening at 7pm. Name the place. Your wish is my command”.

‘Inadvertent’ pats on the bottoms, as they pass one another, are sometimes entertained to drive the point ‘we’ve-got-something-running-between-us’ home.

The rendezvous is set to be in a down town motel later in the evening. No one seeing them in the motel would even allow the thought that the two are boss and employee. They would only fit in the description of a happy couple: husband and wife. Pats on the back, pecks on the cheeks and lips and luscious chinwags, that cause paroxysms of laughter, grace their evening date.

Most of their tea and lunch breaks are spent in the Internet café that is a stone throw away from their place of work; or even send emails to each other from the office.

There are incidences of female bosses seducing their junior male employees just for the fun of it or to satiate their wild lusts. Such male employees are pampered and mollycoddled by this female power that hovers over them. They lose their sense of authority and in effect relinquish their power of reasoning to manipulation.

There is a case of a certain junior clerk who had a blooming affair with his female boss. The boss is the one who had brought the essential spark onto the scene. She had blown the spark into a flame and fanned the flames into a roaring fire. It had been a steady love affair and would have grown into something even more ‘sinister’ had it not been for the knowledge of his wife. She was devastated that all this time something of such gargantuan proportions had been going on behind her back.

She filed for a divorce because of her husband’s ‘nyumba ndogo’ {what they call a man’s mistress in Tanzania}.

In Tanzania this is a common scenario. Office affairs are extended to the home front. These affairs become a way of life thus staining the credibility of family unity and solidarity.

A worker who is a proponent of this lascivious system, of entertaining an affair with the boss, appears untouchable and may intimidate fellow colleagues. It goes without saying that if such state of affairs is vetoed by the high and mighty in the corporate ladder then rottenness pervades the very heart of the system that they claim to stand for.

There’s no denying that some office affairs have given birth to relationships that led to marriage. Employees who have such office affairs appear contented may show in the optimistic stand they hold and satisfactory work output.

Be that as it may, for any organization aspiring to be effective in these days of corporate and social responsibity, moral cleanliness is like two sides of a coin. It would never be a coin without either of the two sides. Bosses and leaders should be epitomes of a moral perfection which the juniors can resonate with.

Bosses should try to maintain platonic relationships with the employees and juniors. Prurient discussions and gestures should not be entertained between employer and employee unless, of course, the employee is your wife. And even then, the privacy of the home is the best place to propagate such a front.

To sum up, everyday it behooves us to do something that will inch towards a better tomorrow. A better workplace environment and better, healthier relationships at the workplace will guarantee a triumphant entry into our destiny.

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Traveling has always attracted mankind; more so, when it comes to plush landscapes, crystal waters, glorious flora and fauna, interesting activities, delightful parks, wind-swept beaches and more. There is so much to see around the world that it can almost drive you bonkers if you sit to plan the perfect vacation for you and your sweetheart. So here we have made your job easier by choosing the top five most romantic destinations to plop on for a short break, honeymoon or weekend away.

Spot 1: The Maldives Islands

Couples seem to love islands and beaches more than any other holiday destinations. Therefore, Maldives would be a winning choice if you’re planning to uncork the romantic side in you with your beloved. Undisputedly romantic, this tropical getaway is the perfect spot to relax. The inviting waters and corals, fabulous underwater activities like snorkeling or scuba would leave you thrilled to your core. And if that doesn’t interest you enough, you can always island-hop or tap your feet to the bodu beru, a typical drum beat of the place.

Spot 2: Venice, Italy

A series of islands at the centre of a lagoon—that’s the beautiful Venice for you! This is one city that will never fail lovers. The architectural wonders, the fun of getting lost in the city and within its classic buildings, the joy of sailing through its ‘canals’ in clasped hands—all go together to make for the romantic ‘Venice’ experience and you bet, this can be an affair to remember!

Spot 3: Channel Islands, UK

If dreams were real, Channel Islands would surely be one of them! The eye-catching natural beauty of the place, coupled with all its exciting activities make for a marvelous holiday destination. Golden sands, clear blue ocean, picturesque gardens, surfing, dolphin-watching, shopping—all these tinged with a classical touch to its social life—render a vacation mood just tailor-made for lovers young or old.

Spot 4: Florida Keys

Another unmistakably romantic getaway is the Florida Keys. The place has five major areas—the Key Largo, Islamorada, Marathon, Big Pine Key and the Key West—all of which can put up a hard competition for each other as they have some of the world’s best diving spots, attractive beaches, finest wildlife and fishing opportunities. Evidently, a vacation in the Florida Keys would score high on the romance charts and allow the most needed pep to your holiday.

Spot 5: Alghero, Sardinia

If you want a laid-back, uninterrupted vacation with your sweetie pie, accentuated with just good food and old wine, Alghero is the place to be! This Mediterranean marvel is one among a traveler’s leading choices because of its impressive Italian spirit and nostalgic warmth. The beauty of this place is unlike that in Maldives or Florida Keys, but a winner in its own right. Interestingly, the nightlife here is quite attractive too.

Wain Roy is an internet marketing professional expert in various industries like real estate, web design, finance, medical tourism, Canadian pharmacy drug and Florida Keys Arts

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